You know that ancient expression that says "if you love something set it free. If it comes back it's yours. If not, it was never meant to be." Well, Roger Mathews is trying out if it is really true.
It's been a month since the fans heard the breaking news of Mathews separating from Jenni "JWoww" Farley. The month was full of Roger wanting to win the Jersey Shore star back. His attempt to win her back came long after he already knew that she "grew tired of the repetitive pattern that we fell into" long ago.
Sending messages through Instagram for the whole world to see
But Rogers is definitely not giving up on their relationship. In the outcome of Jenni getting the divorce papers, Roger established their division in an honest video shared to Instagram. "I am going to win my wife back," Roger said. "I'm going to win her affection back; I am going to win her love back. I have no intentions on being a single dad. We're in counseling so there is hope. It ain't over 'till the fat lady sings."
Instagram is a great platform for communication. There are many celebs that have chosen to buy followers on Instagram. So far, Jenni has continued quiet on the subject, with good reason too. A source previously explained, "Their relationship hasn't been healthy for a while, but even though Jenni already filed for divorce, it's still not totally over yet—there's a chance they could work it out and get back together."
Clearly, the couple hasn’t given up on all the hope since they endure to go on passionate dinners and spend precious moments together as a family. Only a few days after Jenni filed for divorce they were spotted with 4-year-old daughter Meilani and 2-year-old son Greyson at a spectacle for the Disney Junior Dance Party On Tour in West Long Branch, N.J. The two were seen with enthusiastic smiles for the day out, although Jenni didn’t wear her wedding ring.
Then, in advance of their 3rd wedding anniversary, the duo once again joined together to rejoice the big day, much to the astonishment of their followers. "Rome wasn't built in a day," he wrote together with a photo of them appreciating a candlelit dinner. The dinner was composed of steak over red wine and champagne. And as the two completed their meal, a horse-drawn carriage adorned with pink blossoms was expecting them outside, much to the astonishment of Jenni. "The horse, oh my God," JWoww said in surprise. But ceremonial dinner was just part one of the couple's romantic evening. Mathews uploaded a video of Farley happy and laughing as she marched up to a horse-drawn carriage.
"Is what for us?" Mathews asks the reality star in the video.
"The horse! Oh, my God," she responds, chuckling.
"Your chariot awaits," Mathews then says before giving her a bouquet of flowers, and adding, "Let me get that door for you, babe. Happy anniversary."
The sweet gesture is a step in the right way, but the official procedure to divorce that was filed only a month ago gave fans some awareness into the couple's personal sufferings.
Sending wishes through Instagram
And if that wasn't enough to revolutionize Jenni's way of thinking, Roger look forward to his heartfelt message to her on the actual day of their anniversary would. He posted a photo of their dazzling wedding day and wrote: "This happened 3 years ago today. 8 years together total. 3006 days together. Not one of them was a flawless day. Not one of them would I change. Happy Anniversary Babe."
History of the duo
Before Jersey Shore, Farley owned a graphic design commerce, Jenni Farley Designs, Inc. In December 2009, Farley began appearing in Jersey Shore in which she and seven housemates spent the summer in Seaside Heights, New Jersey. Back then she was only 23 years old. The second season was filmed in Miami, Florida, and then the third season resumed to New Jersey. A fourth season of the show was taken in Florence, Italy, and the final two seasons moved back to Seaside Heights.
If any of this has persuaded Jenni, she isn't allowing anybody to know it yet. The reality star has sustained to keep her protector up against Roger's charms.
She lately jetted off to Barcelona, Spain with daughter Meilani, where they are enjoying in the rich antiquity and beautiful places of interest of the country. Mathews shared a photo of the four-year-old at a historic view, with the caption: "Such a precious little diva enjoying her Spain vacation with Mom."
According to the New Jersey newspaper The Asbury Park Press, Farley mentioned conflicting differences in her divorce filings, which demanded the pair was having problems for "a period of at least six months which make it appear that the marriage should be dissolved and that there is no prospect of reconciliation."
Getting the feelings out
However, in the emotional Instagram video posted soon after, Mathews explained there was no cheating involved, despite the rumors. He assured his wife he would put effort into their relationship.
"My wife filed for divorce, it’s true," he explained to the world. "I don’t blame her. There’s no cheating or any dumb shit or any juicy details. She just grew tired of the repetitive pattern that we fell into… and [it was] not a good one."
Months before she filed for divorce, Jenni “JWoww” Farley talked about her emotions to her Jersey Shore costars about a low moment in their relationship with husband Roger Mathews.
On Thursday’s chapter of Jersey Shore Family Vacation, Angelina Pivarnick admitted to the girls that she’d been having disputes with her fiancé Chris Larangeira over her being in the house with Vinny Guadagnino, because the two had spent the night together years before.
“That’s like, a masculine thing,” Jenni said. “His fiancée is in a house with dudes that are single. It’s a whole insecurity thing. No man is secure in this type of s—, it’s just not a thing. We’ve all been there.” “Still going through it,” sounded in Nicole “Snooki” Polizzi, who’s been wedded to Jionni LaValle since 2014. “Same,” Jenni said. “Mine almost led to divorce, so.”
As for the prospect of their matrimony, that is unknown.