Psychologists say: everyone is wrong, and this is absolutely normal and natural. It is important to try to rectify the situation without waiting for the consequences to reach the scale of the disaster.
Every time when problems in a relationship arise, we do not think about the fact that our partner’s behavior may be caused by our actions and words. Why do we not endure any experience from our quarrels and partings, do not think about the root causes? We often take the wrong steps in relationships and receive unexpected reactions from men. We've rounded up 10 of the most common mistakes that Denver women seeking men can make.
# 1. Hurry up events
Enjoy communication with your partner, go on dates, but don't rush things. Do not carry your collection of books to him or try to change the curtains in his kitchen after the third date. A man can perceive an attempt to create comfort in a bachelor's hole as an act of encroachment on his independence. Be patient and dating in Denver will bring you good memories.
# 2. Give up on the relationship
Don't relax. A beaten and well-known fact: a man is a hunter. As soon as he got you into his nets, the hunt is over. Don't turn romance into boredom. Remaining sometimes inaccessible and a little mysterious, you will whet a man's interest. Men are not interested in women who are sobbing on the phone and waiting for a call but surrounded by fans, happy and contented girls.
# 3. Constantly criticize him
Criticism from loved ones, friends and family members is the most painful. Never, especially in public, do not make fun of your partner, do not "get personal." If you have a fight, do not complain about him to everyone in common. You will certainly make up, and those around you will remember for a long time what you said in upset feelings. Admire your man and believe in him.
# 4. Talking about a common future too frequently
Do not bore him by talking about how you know from the age of seven how your wedding dress should look and how your five children will be called. However, if you have been together for a long time and he still does not think about a joint future, ask directly about his intentions. If your partner says he is not going to marry you, end the relationship. This is not your man, he is unlikely to change his mind.
# 5. Take offense silently
If your man is not a psychic, it is highly likely that he will not guess why you are sulking at him. And the "think for yourself" thrown by you will only make him angry. Men prefer to speak clearly and to the point. In a relaxed atmosphere, say what exactly does not suit you. Denver women seeking men shouldn’t use the phrases "you are always like this" and "you again ...". If you don't like something, immediately talk about how you feel.
# 6. Ask about the ex
No one has ever felt better from the realization of the fact that in the life of a beloved man there was a certain Angela - the goddess of love and a master of cooking. Of course, you can and should talk about the past, about the lessons that you learned from previous relationships, but psychologists do not recommend discussing the personal characteristics of former partners.
# 7. Do not respect personal space
Any relationship is based on trust. No matter how much you love each other, it can be difficult to be together all the time - each of us needs personal space to be ourselves. Never check someone else's phone, email, and social media messages. Decide for yourself once and for all that you trust your partner.
Don't be jealous of friends or hobbies. Better try to learn more about them. If your partner maintains a relationship with these people, then they are really interesting personalities. Your partner is good at understanding people - otherwise, he wouldn't have chosen you, right? Stick to it and your dating in Denver will always be successful.
# 8. Do not believe in the future of your relationship
As soon as you stop believing in the bright future of your relationship, a little fluffy rabbit dies somewhere in the world. But seriously, there are difficulties in any union. Don't let your emotions cross out all the good things that happened between you. Do not give up - focus on what binds you, and fight for your happiness.